{"id":750,"date":"2017-09-19T01:47:28","date_gmt":"2017-09-19T01:47:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jhanderson.biz\/?p=750"},"modified":"2017-09-19T01:47:28","modified_gmt":"2017-09-19T01:47:28","slug":"6-things-sitting-meditation-is-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jhanderson.biz\/index.php\/2017\/09\/19\/6-things-sitting-meditation-is-not\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Things Sitting Meditation Is Not"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Sitting meditation is the classic mindfulness technique. Other practices like mindful walking or mindful eating may seem more accessible, and sitting in silence may seem a little intimidating. But sitting has a lot of merits as a way to get introduced to the experience of mindfulness. This post is my attempt to clear away some of the obstacles.<\/em><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Sitting meditation is not complicated.<\/strong> The task is to &#8220;sit and observe what&#8217;s happening.&#8221; Nevertheless, don&#8217;t be surprised if you&#8217;re laughably bad at it for a while. There is no limit to the number of times you might find yourself saying &#8220;woops, I&#8217;m completely lost in thought again&#8221; during a session.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sitting meditation is not our normal everyday experience.<\/strong> We are used to <em>doing things<\/em>, and it&#8217;s somewhat bizarre to <em>do nothing<\/em>. You may find yourself thinking &#8220;What is this thing that we&#8217;re doing? Why are we doing it?&#8221; Those befuddled questions are a good start on the path to thinking differently.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sitting meditation is not dependent on sitting perfectly still.<\/strong> If you&#8217;re wiggling, then your assignment is to notice that. It may be that your noticing will help the wiggling slow down, but whether it does or not is not really important.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sitting meditation is not dependent on any special equipment.<\/strong> You might imagine (rightly) the huge variety of pillows, benches, and other gear available to aid in sitting meditation. My advice: don&#8217;t worry about that, and start out by sitting in a chair. It&#8217;s what you&#8217;ve been doing most of your life.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sitting meditation is not dependent on any particular beliefs, or the suspension of any beliefs.<\/strong> It&#8217;s about noticing what is so. That noticing helps us apply our beliefs with greater utility and precision.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sitting meditation<\/strong> (at least the mindfulness variety &#8211; there are others) <strong>is not a way to zone out, bliss out, or have amazing experiences.<\/strong> It&#8217;s just a way to pay attention to what&#8217;s going on in your mind, in your body, and in your sensory experience. Sometimes that&#8217;s amazing, and sometimes it&#8217;s not &#8211; just like the rest of life.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><em>We\u2019ll dive into all of this (including some experimentation with sitting meditation) and much more at my\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/jhanderson.biz\/index.php\/mindful-delivery\/\">Mindful Technology Delivery<\/a>\u00a0class, September 27, 2017 from 4-6pm in Pioneer Square.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/jhanderson.biz\/index.php\/mindful-delivery\/\">Learn more and register here<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sitting meditation is the classic mindfulness technique. Other practices like mindful walking or mindful eating may seem more accessible, and sitting in silence may seem a little intimidating. But sitting has a lot of merits as a way to get introduced to the experience of mindfulness. 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